Community rules
Six of them. They exist so that this stays a place people are willing to be honest in.
- 01
No means no, the first time
If someone stops replying, unmatches or blocks you, that is the answer. Making another account to get around it is a ban.
- 02
Nothing sexual without a clear yes
Unsolicited explicit messages or images are the fastest way off this platform. There is no warning for this one.
- 03
No threats, ever
Threatening someone — their safety, their reputation, their family — is where the anonymity stops protecting you. This is what the identity escrow exists for.
- 04
Do not out people
Who someone is attracted to is theirs to share. Screenshotting a profile or a conversation and passing it around is a ban, and depending on what you do with it, it is also a crime.
- 05
Be who you say you are
You do not have to use your real name — you should not. But do not pretend to be a specific other person.
- 06
This is for HIT students
Accounts are tied to an @hit.ac.zw address. Sharing your login with someone outside the institute defeats the point and puts everyone you talk to at risk.
What happens when a report comes in
A moderator reads it, along with any messages captured when it was filed. Depending on what happened, the outcome is nothing, a suspension, or a permanent ban. For threats or anything illegal, the sealed identity behind the account can be opened — see what we store for exactly how that works and what is recorded.
The person you report is never told who reported them.